Our daughter was never boyish, masculine or interested in boy things when she was growing up. She has an older brother, and they got along well. Our daughter loved clothes and looking pretty. She was a very sweet child, always smiling. She did have a difficult time once she hit puberty at age 11. Her periods were a nightmare, heavy and painful. However she was a little trooper and carried on as best she could.
My husband’s company moved us to a different state when she was 16, and she fit in well at her new school and had her first boyfriend. She was the happiest there she had ever been. Then my husband’s company decided we were to be moved again, just one year later. We came back to our home state, and put our daughter in a small private school for her junior and senior years. At first all seemed well, but she seemed to have trouble making friends. So we bought her a horse so she would have something of her own to do and keep busy. She did say she was depressed and I took her to the doctor who put her on antidepressants.
She seemed to have trouble making friends. So we bought her a horse so she would have something of her own to do and keep busy. She did say she was depressed.
She was very excited about going off to college and when she got there, once again, she seemed happy and made friends. Things change again in her sophomore year; she became friends with a strange girl with tattoos, piercings, etc. Later we found out this girl was involved in all things “LGBT.” Then our daughter became a teaching assistant for a professor who touted himself as the campus “Trans Ally.”
Things change again in her sophomore year of college; she became friends with a strange girl with tattoos, piercings, etc. Later we found out this girl was involved in all things “LGBT.”
By the end of her sophomore year, our daughter had chopped off her hair, and started dressing in a boyish manner. But she wouldn’t tell us anything; we are a Christian family and she knew our beliefs. She insisted her new style meant nothing. She got a job as an RA in her dorm for the summer of 2018, and unbeknownst to us, had “come out” as “transgender” there on campus, and changed her name.
In the fall of 2018, she turned 21, and gave us a letter telling us she was transgender, and that if we couldn’t accept it she would simply “leave.”
In the fall of 2018, she turned 21, and gave us a letter telling us she was transgender, and that if we couldn’t accept it she would simply “leave.” She knew we wouldn’t accept it, and we begged her to come home and go to counseling. We told her we would not continue paying for college while she was pretending to be a boy. So she dropped out of college, and left the state with a transgender girl she met online.
She now lives with this girl, who has a twin who is also transgender, and their parents who are utterly brainwashed .
She now lives with this girl, who has a twin who is also transgender, and their parents who are utterly brainwashed idiots. The twins have both undergone hormone treatments and had mastectomies. We are now trying to live wondering if we’ll ever see our daughter again. We have no idea what to do. It is a nightmare.